Xtasia Swingers and Fetish Club
Swingers club, SandwellOpen
Xtasia Swingers and Fetish Club is open. Rated 4.2★ from 69 Google reviews; the newest review is from October 2026.
- 4.2★Average rating
- 69reviews
- October 2026Newest review
Updated 13 November 2026
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Details
- Mon12:00–00:00
- Tue12:00–00:00
- Wed12:00–00:00
- Thu12:00–00:00
- Fri12:00–03:00
- Sat12:00–03:00
- Sun12:00–20:00
- Status
- Open
- Address
- 140 High St, West Bromwich B70 6JJ
- Website
- xtasia.co.uk
- Newest review
- October 2026
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Before you go
- Parking
Reviewers from the mid-2000s noted good parking with vehicles watched all night; recent reviews do not mention parking problems.
- Arriving
The club's own website advises first-timers to bring valid photo ID, expect a warm welcome and venue tour, and take time to settle in at your own pace; there is no pressure to participate in anything.
- Privacy
The club's own website confirms changing areas and lockers are available with refundable deposits, and states that your boundaries should always be respected; speak to staff if they are not.
- First visit
The club's own website emphasises that first visits should feel exciting, straightforward and entirely at your own pace, with a warm welcome and tour of facilities; one 2025 reviewer praised being « made to feel very welcome » on newbie night, but a 2026 review warns that a new visitor who became overwhelmed was treated poorly by an « unapproachable owner ».
- Dress code
The club's own website states there is no compulsory dress-down time and you can socialise, dance and explore without undressing; you may bring a change of clothes or lingerie and get ready on-site.
- Prices
Reviewers from across two decades consistently praise « cheap » drinks and « reasonable » prices; recent 2026 reviews mention £50 entry for a single man, but no current couple rates are stated in the sources.
- At the door
The club's own website describes a straightforward membership and entry process with a team tour and answers to questions; however, a 2026 review reports a single male was told to leave by a bouncer who « listened to » a couple's complaint without hearing his account, leading him to cancel membership.
- Facilities
The club's own website describes a nightclub, spa, Flirts bar and on-site hotel « under one roof »; reviews mention dance floor, dungeon, Jacuzzi, sauna, spanking bench, play rooms and a dogging area; a 2025 review notes that spa access is restricted for males on certain days (midweek access unclear from that reviewer's experience).
- Food and drink
A 2026 review praised « amazing » morning breakfast; a 2025 reviewer noted the « morning breakfast is also amazing »; reviews do not mention food service during evening events.
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About Xtasia Swingers and Fetish Club

Dance floor with pole and blue partitions Google 
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Xtasia is a long-established members-only lifestyle club in the West Bromwich area, combining a nightclub, bar, spa, and on-site hotel under one roof. A typical evening involves arriving for membership check-in, getting a tour of the facilities, then settling into the atmosphere at your own pace — you might dance, socialise in the bar, use the spa, or explore the various play areas; the club's own website emphasises no pressure to do anything beyond what you choose. The venue has strong bones and a loyal following, especially among couples and first-timers who appreciate the all-in-one convenience, friendly staff, and reasonably priced drinks; however, recent reviews reveal serious concerns about management inconsistency, staff conduct, and basic cleanliness standards that have eroded what was once a well-loved destination.
Reviews from 2004 to 2013 paint a picture of a thriving, well-run club where visitors felt welcomed, safe and respected — regulars praised the festive atmosphere, playful single male behaviour, and value for money. Theme nights and SDC events drew good crowds, and the on-site hotel rooms were noted as clean and comfortable. Staff were friendly and professional, owners engaged and approachable.
Since around 2024–2026, the picture has darkened considerably. Recent one-star reviews report dirty hotel sheets and pubic hair in showers, lurkers in the spa, an unapproachable owner with « no compassion », bouncer staff who side with couples over single men without listening to both sides, and an off-duty staff member's verbal abuse of a long-time regular. The most recent five-star reviews (from those who visited on foam party and newbie nights in summer 2026) describe amazing experiences with friendly staff, but they sit uneasily alongside accounts of poor treatment and a steep drop in regular attendance. The venue appears to be experiencing instability in management and operations.
- Who goes
- Couples, single women, and single men (though single male entry is tightly managed); mostly locals from the Midlands with some visitors from across the UK and abroad; ages range from 20s to 50s+; mix of newcomers to the lifestyle and seasoned swingers.
- How opinion has moved
- Strong reputation from 2004–2013, steady positive reviews; a noticeable decline in quality and consistency from 2024 onwards, with recent reviews describing serious staff conduct and cleanliness issues that have driven away long-time members, though some recent first-time visitors still report positive experiences.
- Prices mentioned
- good bar prices; spa not badly priced
What guests love
- The all-in-one venue layout combining club, bar, spa and hotel makes for a convenient and immersive night out or weekend stay.
- Staff in the best periods of the club's history were described as friendly, welcoming, professional and helpful, setting new visitors at ease with a tour and reassurance.
- Drinks prices have been consistently praised as cheap and good value compared to pubs and other clubs, across reviews spanning over 20 years.
- The atmosphere is relaxed and non-pressurised, with no compulsion to participate in play or undress if you prefer to socialise and dance.
- Single males are generally treated respectfully and back off politely when a couple signals they wish to be left alone, according to older positive reviews.
- Theme nights, SDC events and themed parties have historically attracted lively crowds and generated a festive, energetic atmosphere.
What guests complain about
- Hotel rooms have been reported in recent reviews as dirty, with sheets that smell of aftershave, pubic hair in showers, and doggy stairs with wires exposed in smoking areas.
- The spa and wet areas are allegedly used for sexual activity and are not clean enough for safe relaxation, according to a 2026 review.
- A recent single male guest was told to leave by a bouncer after a dispute with a couple, without staff listening to his account or involving management fairly, leading him to cancel his membership in anger.
- An off-duty staff member was reported to have verbally abused a long-time regular, with management then dismissing and « twisting the story » rather than taking the complaint seriously.
- A 2026 review described the owner as « not approachable », « unapproachable », « cold, abrupt and heartless », lacking compassion for a new visitor who became overwhelmed.
- Regulars report that most long-time members have stopped attending due to a perceived decline in management quality and venue standards, with one describing the change as « crashed downhill severely » in recent years.
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Club facts, checked against sources
2 of 11 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Membership
- Paid membership Club says Club website ×2 · November 2026
- Single men
- Some nights only Club says Club website · November 2026
- Open on
- Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday Other sources say Google Maps · November 2026
- Busiest on
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- Friday Club says Club website · November 2026
- Saturday Confirmed Club website · November 2026SwingersClubList · March 2012
- Facilities
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- Jacuzzi Confirmed Club website · November 2026Google Maps · March 2025
- Play rooms Confirmed Club website · November 2026Google Maps ×2 · March 2025
- Dungeon Confirmed Club website · November 2026Google Maps ×2 · March 2025
- Dance floor Confirmed Club website · November 2026Google Maps · March 2025
- Sauna Club says Club website · November 2026
- Steam room Club says Club website · November 2026
- Bar Club says Club website · November 2026
- Lockers Club says Club website · November 2026
- Showers Club says Club website · November 2026
- Overnight rooms Club says Club website · November 2026
- Drinks
- Paid bar Sources differ Google Maps · August 2026 other sources say: Bring your own
- Parking
- Free, on site Other sources say SwingersClubList · April 2004
- Typical age
- Mixed Other sources say SwingersClubList · February 2013
- Minimum age
- 18 Club says Club website · November 2026
- Booking
- Recommended Club says Club website · November 2026
- Closed for good
- No Club says Club website · November 2026
Latest reviews from every source
I been there on 30/10/2026 and someones wife about playing with everyone and i asked her man may i he said yes he was too drunk and then he said yes and sworn too me i was ignored him afyer 10 min he come back too me he threatend me again i wasn't say anyword i respected club and then i said too him if u have problem any issue lets sort out with manager and bouncer come to us he listened too him not me straight away…
First time on Saturday. Foam party night. And it was fantastic. Both of us felt at ease, and very relaxed. All the staff are friendly and very helpful. Prices behind the bar are good. The play rooms etc are amazing and clean. We did our thing, no hassle from anyone. We will definitely be back.
We were regulars until an off duty staff member starting being verbal to me while looking for my partner at the end of the night. In return they have tried twisting the story and quite frankly said some disgusting stuff regarding the care of my partner, being such a club you would think they would know better. Then tried accusing us of having drugs (Total BS) This was a 5 star glowing review after years of attendance…
Just won’ say we would like to give a massive thank you to Dan and all the staff at the club last night It was our first experience and what an amazing night everyone was so friendly and made you feel so comfortable and welcoming 100% coming back tonight 🩷🥰
Hotel rooms where Dirty. Sheet on bed that smell of aftershave apon arrival when u get into bed. Pubic hair in showers Doggy stairs with wirers hanging out in smoking areas Lots of lurkers Dirty spa area where couples have sex in the water u get into Not approachable owner who has no compassion for newbie who becomes overwhelmed. Low quality premises Not a nice experience thanks to owners abrupt and savage approach t…
Wonderful atmosphere every time we come here. Spa is amazing and not badly priced. Hotel is also great. We have experienced a few different rooms here and both shared bathroom and private bathroom, all are clean and tidy. Morning breakfast is also amazing. Great food and wonderful service. 10/10 A+++
You don't have to turn around too much, it's the worst I've been here in England.
Nice place , clean, friendly staff. The only reason for which I give 4 stars is that access to the Spa area it is restricted. I booked the room especially to have where to relax during the day in a Jacuzzi or a sauna. So if you guys(males) are after Spa... it's not the ideal place. Monday and Tuesday there is no one to socialise with. I didn't choose the place only for the naughty fun which I heard it is happening in…
Sources we checked
- Google Maps 4.2★ from 692 reviews readnewest April 2025
- SwingersClubList 4★ from 3838 reviews readnewest July 2023
- Google reviews 10 reviews readnewest October 2026
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (50 with stars). The line is the running average. Does the owner answer?
The owner has replied to recent reviews on Google, including a 5-star review in August 2026 and negative reviews from May, July, and January 2026, but reviewers report that management responses have been dismissive or unhelpful rather than addressing complaints constructively.
Rating spread
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Google Maps, SwingersClubList, Google reviews, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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