Pleasures in Kent
Swingers club, Tonbridge and MallingOpen
Pleasures in Kent is open. Rated 3.8★ from 35 Google reviews; the newest review is from June 2026.
- 3.8★Average rating
- 35reviews
- June 2026Newest review
Updated 13 November 2026
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Details
- Monclosed
- Tueclosed
- Wedclosed
- Thuclosed
- Fri20:00–02:00
- Sat20:00–03:00
- Sunclosed
- Status
- Open
- Address
- 326 Red Hill, Wateringbury, Maidstone ME18 5LD
- Phone
- +447753514077
- Website
- pleasures-in-kent.co.uk
- Newest review
- June 2026
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Before you go
- Parking
The club's own website states there is private parking available.
- Arriving
Single men must phone Steve beforehand to register for Friday nights, and may be refused entry after 11pm; arrive in smart or smart-casual dress or entry will be refused.
- First visit
New visitors are given a tour upon arrival to help them feel at ease, and the club is described as welcoming to first-timers.
- Dress code
Smart or smart-casual dress code is strictly enforced; shorts, tracksuits, hoodies, ripped jeans, and dirty workwear are not allowed at any time of year.
- Prices
Friday night parties: couples £40, single men £50 (rising to £70 after 11pm); Saturday nights: couples £40, single women £20; single women are free on Fridays. Theme nights and special events have separate pricing.
- At the door
Management reserves the right to refuse entry and can ban guests; one recent review reported an unexplained ban after previous visits.
- Facilities
The club's own website describes 14 uniquely themed play areas, a dance floor with lasers and music, bar, lounge, and covered outdoor smoking area.
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About Pleasures in Kent
Red-draped bedroom with circular bed and decorations Photos from the venue's own website, pleasures-in-kent.co.uk. Your photo? Ask us to remove it.
Pleasures in Kent is a countryside swingers club nestled in secluded Kent woodland near Maidstone, run by Steve and Lorri. The club's own website describes it as a privately owned retreat with 14 themed play areas, a dance floor, bar, and lounge, open every Friday and Saturday night plus themed events. A typical evening involves arriving in smart-casual dress, exploring the various rooms at your own pace, socializing at the bar, and dancing—the atmosphere ranges from relaxed to lively depending on the night and crowd.
The venue works best for established couples seeking a comfortable, non-pushy environment; first-timers are welcomed and given tours to ease nerves. Reviews consistently praise the friendly regulars, the quality of facilities and décor, and the respectful house culture. However, several guests report the atmosphere can feel slow or reserved, with less action than expected—particularly on slower nights—and some found the crowd less open to interaction than hoped.
Overall, Pleasures suits couples looking for a safe, well-run introduction to the lifestyle in a countryside setting. The 3.8-star rating reflects mostly positive experiences tempered by occasional disappointment about pacing and crowd energy, plus a small number of one-star complaints about entry disputes and selective crowding.
- Who goes
- Mostly couples (both established and first-timers), with single men allowed by prior phone registration and single women welcomed; mix of local regulars and visitors, ages 25 and up.
- How opinion has moved
- Opinion remained fairly stable across the review span, with consistent praise for facilities and friendliness balanced by recurring complaints about slow atmosphere and selective entry enforcement.
- Prices mentioned
- £50 single entry (mentioned)
What guests love
- The décor, lasers, music, and quality of the dance floor create an impressive visual and social atmosphere.
- The 14 themed play rooms and variety of facilities offer many spaces to explore and enjoy.
- Regulars and staff are often friendly, supportive, and welcoming, especially to first-timers who are given tours.
- The venue feels safe, clean, respectful, and non-seedy despite being a little tired in places.
- The overall setting in peaceful Kent countryside with private parking creates a relaxed, discreet retreat.
- You can make the experience what you want—it is respectful but allows guests to be as adventurous as they choose.
What guests complain about
- The atmosphere can feel stiff, uptight, and reserved, with many guests watching rather than actively participating or socializing.
- Action and interaction are often limited, particularly on quieter nights, which can leave visitors underwhelmed.
- Entry enforcement and banning decisions sometimes feel inconsistent or unexplained, leading to frustration and cost.
- Single men can outnumber couples and women significantly, creating an imbalanced dynamic and making the experience less appealing for mixed groups.
- The premises are showing age and wear, though they are being refurbished.
- Pricing is felt by some to be high for the quality of experience offered, especially on quiet nights.
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Club facts, checked against sources
1 of 9 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Single men
- Some nights only Club says Club website · November 2026
- Open on
- Friday, Saturday Confirmed Club website · November 2026Google Maps · November 2026
- Busiest on
- Friday Other sources say Reddit · July 2026
- Dress code
- Smart Club says Club website · November 2026
- Facilities
- Play rooms, Dungeon, Dance floor, Bar, Outdoor area Club says Club website · November 2026
- Smoking
- Smoking area Club says Club website · November 2026
- Parking
- Free, on site Club says Club website · November 2026
- Minimum age
- 25 Club says Club website · November 2026
- Closed for good
- No Other sources say Google reviews · October 2025
Latest reviews from every source
Yep lots of times
I occasionally take my wife to pleasures on a Friday night if you want to see it, your wife fucked by different men Friday night is the best night
Hey, I was out this Friday. I’ve been to quite a few clubs—places like Underground Bar at King’s Cross or Sheworld. Pleasures Kent was my next stop; it’s a spot tucked away on the outskirts of London. I went out of curiosity. There weren't many people there on a Friday; couples show up in sexy outfits, but that’s about it. The atmosphere is stiff—you really have to charm the regulars to get anything going. There’s li…
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We come here all the time. Then tonight they habe said that we are banded. Me and my wife habe never done anything wrong. We where her last week I payed £50 as a single man. Then I want to come with my wife and they said that we are baned. I have payed for a taxi to get here (£40) and back. Of you had a problem with me you should have said last time I was there. So I am not paying out of my pocket!!!!🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Still run down and unhelpful staff?
Great place, always a good fun night in here. Always meet good friendly people.
Sources we checked
- Google Maps 3.8★ from 355 reviews readnewest July 2023
- Reddit 10 reviews readnewest July 2026
- Google reviews 10 reviews readnewest June 2026
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (25 with stars). The line is the running average. Does the owner answer?
Steve and Lorri (now married) actively run the club and respond to guest enquiries; one historical review notes the owner gave a first-timer a complimentary drink, though recent reviews include complaints about unexplained bans that do not appear to have been answered.
Rating spread
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Google Maps, Reddit, Google reviews, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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