Swingers clubs in California
We track 44 clubs in California: 39 open, 2 closed or gone quiet, across 5 cities.
- 44clubs
- 39Open
- 4.1Average rating
- 5cities
Updated November 13, 2026
Cities in California
Swingers clubs in California
Ranked by Google rating, weighted by the number of reviews.
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Mi Kasa Hot Springs (Adults Only and Clothing Optional)
4.8★519 reviews
Mi Kasa Hot Springs is an adults-only, clothing-optional desert retreat in Desert Hot Springs built around natural mineral hot springs.
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Lido Palms Resort and Spa
4.6★126 reviews
Lido Palms is a small, adults-only resort in Desert Hot Springs with just ten rooms, centered around naturally heated mineral pools and spa facilities.
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Threshold Society
4.7★38 reviews
Threshold Society is a non-profit BDSM and kink education and play facility in Los Angeles, operating since 1982 as a members-only club in a warehouse district setting.
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Monterey Stay and Play
5★10 reviews
Monterey Stay and Play is a private, adults-only bed and breakfast near Salinas, California that caters to couples exploring BDSM and erotic lifestyles.
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Folsom Street Community Center
4.5★129 reviews
Folsom Street is a San Francisco non-profit arts and culture organization running a community center and hosting iconic events celebrating kink, leather, and alternative sexuality communities.
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Legacy BDSM Studios
5★8 reviews
Legacy BDSM Studios is a professional dungeon in Los Angeles offering private sessions with skilled practitioners in a discreet, soundproofed space.
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sea mountain lifestyle resorts and clothing optional spas and nude resort
4.4★328 reviews
Sea Mountain is a clothing-optional adults-only spa resort and lifestyle club in Desert Hot Springs, about 20 minutes from Palm Springs.
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The Spring Resort & Spa
4.4★275 reviews
The Spring Resort & Spa is a small, intimate 9-room retreat in Desert Hot Springs, California, built around naturally heated mineral springs that emerge at 170 degrees and are rich in sulfate, calcium, iron and magnesium.
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Sanctuary Studios
4.4★70 reviews
Sanctuary Studios is Los Angeles' longest-running professional BDSM dungeon, female-owned and operating since 1999 from a purpose-built space in Athens.
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Exotic Dreams Resort Hotel
4.3★273 reviews
Exotic Dreams Resort Hotel is an adults-only, clothing-optional lifestyle resort in central Palm Springs, five minutes from the airport and within walking distance of downtown.
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Lupin Lodge
4.3★207 reviews
Lupin Lodge is a woman-owned naturist resort in the Santa Cruz Mountains near Los Gatos, California, established in 1935. The club's own website describes it as a rustic, peaceful retreat offering nude yoga, hiking, volleyball, tennis, a pool, hot tub, sauna, and a restaurant, set among beautiful woodland with deer and walking trails.
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Secret Springs Resort
5★4 reviews
Secret Springs Resort is a clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Desert Hot Springs, California, currently closed but planning to reopen soon.
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Swingers Club California
5★4 reviews
Sea Mountain is a luxury adults-only nude resort and spa in Desert Hot Springs, near Palm Springs, featuring natural mineral water pools, saunas, and a 24-hour lifestyle lounge called Taboo Gardens.
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House of Black
4.5★8 reviews
House of Black is a members-only lifestyle and kink club in San Diego with a discreet location, accessible only after membership approval and ticket purchase through their website.
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Thad's
4.2★132 reviews
Thad's is San Diego's longest-running private social club, operating since the mid-1970s in a dedicated venue with multiple themed spaces.
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The O Spa + Resort
4.1★251 reviews
The O Spa + Resort is a clothing-optional mineral springs resort in Desert Hot Springs with a free-spirited, hippie-chic vibe.
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Rancho Casa Blanca - An Adult Lifestyle Community
4.1★32 reviews
Rancho Casa Blanca is a 55+ adult lifestyle RV resort and country club community spread across 80 acres in Indio, California's Coachella Valley.
- 18 The Keeway Swingers 4.3★3 reviews
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Miracle Springs Resort & Spa
4★3289 reviews
Miracle Springs Resort & Spa in Desert Hot Springs is built around eight naturally heated mineral pools, ranging from warm to very hot, which are its genuine strength and main draw.
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swinger party california
4★15 reviews
Sea Mountain is a clothing-optional resort and swinger party venue in the Desert Hot Springs area, about 90 minutes from Los Angeles and 20 minutes from Palm Springs airport.
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5GC
3.7★3 reviews
5GC is a swinger club in Sacramento that aims to create an upscale atmosphere.
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Club labyrinth
3.7★3 reviews
Club Labyrinth LA is currently closed and seeking a new location, according to its website.
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Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort and Spa - Adults Only
3.6★8 reviews
Sea Mountain Inn is a clothing-optional adults-only resort and spa in Desert Hot Springs, positioned as a lifestyle venue for couples and select singles.
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Gemini Social Club
3.5★28 reviews
Gemini Social Club is a lifestyle venue in Pomona that operates Friday and Saturday nights from 9pm–2am. The club's own website says you check in at an office on N White Ave, then head to a separate party location.
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Power Exchange
3.6★218 reviews
Power Exchange has operated in downtown San Francisco since 1996 as a three-floor adult nightclub for consenting adults 18+. It's an unvarnished, deliberately grungy space in the Tenderloin with themed rooms, dim lighting, and a couples-only loft upstairs—less polished nightclub, more authentic play space.
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EROS a Queer Sex Club
3.1★111 reviews
EROS is San Francisco's queer sex club, located in the Transgender District at 132 Turk Street since 2022. The club's own website says it has been operating since 1992 and offers locker rooms, lounges, video play areas, glory hole booths, cubicles, slings, and showers.
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Arizona Sexy Situations aka. A.S.S.
Arizona Sexy Situations, known as A.S.S., is a swinger club in Glendale that hosts organized parties for couples and singles in the lifestyle.
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Bronze Party
Bronze Party is a private San Francisco swingers club for couples and single women, hosted at various venues including Danzhaus in the Outer Mission.
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Club Elation
Club Elation is a swinger venue in Temecula hosting lifestyle events for couples and singles.
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Club Safe Word
Club Safe Word is a swinger club in San Diego that has built a strong reputation for thoughtful ownership and genuine community focus.
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Love Shack 818
Love Shack 818 is a house-based swinger venue in the Los Angeles area that operates as a private event space for couples and singles.
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Sea Mountain Lifestyles Nude Resort
Sea Mountain Ranch is a clothing-optional nude resort in Desert Hot Springs near Palm Springs, California, offering 24-hour access to mineral water pools, spas, saunas and a lounge called Taboo Gardens.
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Swingersinsations
Swinger Sinsations is a lifestyle party venue hosted by Michelle and Anthony in Victorville, California, part of a network running events across Southern California's Inland Empire and High Desert areas plus Las Vegas.
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Swinghearts
Swinghearts is a Southern California lifestyle party hosted by Chris and Tonia, a welcoming couple who organize regular events for couples and select singles.
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Tentaciones Swingers Club Los Angeles
Tentaciones is a swingers club in Los Angeles with a Latin aesthetic and vibe.
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Venus
Venus is an invitation-only swinger club in Los Angeles that hosts curated parties for couples and select singles.
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Vixen Club
Vixen Club is an upscale swingers venue in the Los Angeles area that caters to couples and single women.
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WeArePrime
WeArePrime is an international private community hosting curated lifestyle parties across California, with locations in Sacramento, Rocklin, Tahoe, and Las Vegas.
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Tangerine's Dream
Tangerine's Dream is a house-party lifestyle venue in Coarsegold run by a warm, welcoming couple known for themed events.
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Dark Room Productions
Dark Room Productions hosts intimate lifestyle events in San Francisco, bringing together like-minded adults for sophisticated, adult-oriented parties in a carefully curated setting.
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Vice Eventz
Vice Eventz is a lifestyle party venue in Riverside hosting adults-only events for couples and singles interested in the swinging community.
Closed and inactive clubs in California
- 1 Plush Parties Last sign of life: January 2020
- 2 Club BIA Vida Last sign of life: unknown
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