The Deviate Network
Party organiser, City of NewburghOpen
The Deviate Network is open, as far as Google, its own website and the web archive can tell.
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Updated 13 November 2026
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- Status
- Open
- Website
- thedeviatenetwork.com
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Before you go
- Privacy
All events are members-only with private venue locations to ensure maximum privacy and discretion, according to the club's own website.
- First visit
Newcomers to the lifestyle are warmly welcomed and will find a non-pushy, inclusive atmosphere where hosts actively help you feel comfortable.
- At the door
Membership is required; the club's own website describes exclusive members-only events with a vetted guest list.
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About The Deviate Network
The Deviate Network is one of New York's oldest lifestyle event hosts, operating since 2009 with a focus on exclusive members-only parties in the Hudson Valley region. The club's own website emphasizes quality over quantity, hosting upscale intimate events with real and verified members in private venues across multiple unique East Coast locations. Nights feature dancing, socializing and connections among couples and single women in a welcoming, non-pushy atmosphere.
Attendees consistently praise the professional hosts (Kim and Luke) for creating an inclusive environment where everyone mingles freely without cliques forming. The organization extends beyond local parties to lifestyle education, travel events, hotel takeovers across the USA, and their own product line including games and lifestyle gear.
Reviewers from 2012 highlight feeling warmly welcomed regardless of age or experience level, with repeat visitors emphasizing the fun, sexy, respectful crowd and the hosts' attention to detail. The venue suits both newcomers exploring the lifestyle and seasoned participants seeking quality connections.
- Who goes
- Couples and single women of all ages, from newcomers to experienced lifestyle participants, mostly from the New York Hudson Valley region.
What guests love
- The hosts Kim and Luke create a welcoming and professional atmosphere where all guests feel comfortable and valued.
- There are no cliques at the parties—everyone mingles openly and is genuinely interested in talking with and meeting other guests.
- The parties attract sexy, fun and attractive people who are respectful and non-pushy in their approach to connections.
- Older couples and first-timers receive the same warm welcome and positive treatment as experienced lifestyle participants.
- The organization pays careful attention to detail in every aspect of their events.
- The Deviate Network offers lifestyle education, travel events and hotel takeovers nationwide in addition to local Hudson Valley parties.
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Club facts, checked against sources
0 of 2 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Membership
- Free sign-up Club says Club website ×2 · November 2026
- Single men
- Not allowed Club says Club website ×2 · November 2026
Latest reviews from every source
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We had a great time: We recently attended our first party on February 18th. We were truly impressed with the professional way Kim and Luke operated the party. We are on the "older" side of the age scale and were warmly greeted by all the participants. All couples in the Hudson Valley should do themselves a big favor, attended a Deviate Party, meet non-pushy like minded people, dance, relax and have fun
You should deviate!: Great party, awesome hosts and fun, sexy guests! We can't wait to party again!!
Fun Place to Be!: We love going to the Deviate parties thrown by Kim & Luke. They always make you feel welcome, whether you're a newbie or a repeat offender! LOL!! You're always guaranteed a good time!!
Deviate Parties: We have been to the Deviate Parties and found them to be a great place to meet like minded non-pushy couples. Great location and Awesome hosts! There didn't seem to be clicks at the parties. Everyone was open to talking with everyone else and having a good time!
Sources we checked
- Reddit 1 reviews readnewest January 2021
- SwingersClubList 4★ from 55 reviews readnewest March 2022
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (6 with stars). The line is the running average. Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Reddit, SwingersClubList, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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