Quiet Encounters
Swingers club, El PasoOpen
Quiet Encounters is open. Rated 3.8★ from 4 Google reviews; the newest review is from unknown.
- 3.8★Average rating
- 4reviews
- unknownNewest review
Updated 13 November 2026
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Details
- Monclosed
- Tueclosed
- Wed21:00–02:00
- Thu21:00–02:00
- Fri21:00–02:00
- Sat21:00–02:00
- Sun21:00–02:00
- Status
- Open
- Address
- 14801 Montana Ave, El Paso, TX 79938
- Website
- quietencounters2.com
- Newest review
- unknown
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Before you go
- Arriving
Plan to introduce yourself and be pleasantly assertive about meeting people, especially on your first visit.
- First visit
Expect the established crowd to be somewhat cliquish; it may take a couple of visits to feel comfortable as newcomers are learning the social dynamics.
- Dress code
Dress as if attending an upscale restaurant or nightclub—men should wear a collared shirt, slacks or nice jeans with dress shoes; women can wear semi-formal dresses, party wear, lingerie, or fetish outfits; no beach attire, athletic shoes or flip-flops allowed.
- At the door
You must show your membership card upon entry; the club is membership-only.
- Facilities
The club provides soft drinks, ice, and light snacks; it is bring-your-own-bottle, though you may store drinks in a cloth backpack or satchel-style cooler rather than Styrofoam.
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About Quiet Encounters
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Quiet Encounters is a private membership swinger club in El Paso that welcomes couples and single women, with a bring-your-own-bottle policy and soft drinks provided. The club's own website says it aims to create a non-pressure, safe environment for like-minded adults, and hosts themed events throughout the month including Shared Desire Night, BDSM Fire Play, and White Party.
Nights at Quiet Encounters tend to draw a mix of regulars and newcomers—the El Paso lifestyle community is small and tight-knit, so many members know each other well. The crowd is described as ordinary people who live next door to you, though attendance can be thin on non-event nights. New visitors should be prepared to introduce themselves warmly; early visitors may find the established groups somewhat cliquish, but persistence pays off. Management has recently worked to improve the ratio of couples to single men by adjusting pricing.
Reviewers appreciate the venue's commitment to comfort and safety, and note that the ownership responds to member feedback. The overall verdict leans positive for couples willing to be sociable and attend themed events, though some have concerns about management approach and crowd size on quieter nights.
- Who goes
- Couples and single women primarily, with a controlled number of single men; mostly local residents who are long-time acquaintances, ranging from established regulars to newcomers trying out the lifestyle.
- How opinion has moved
- Opinion improved from mid-2026 to October 2026, with management demonstrating responsiveness to feedback and making changes to balance the crowd and improve safety.
What guests love
- The ownership is actively responsive to member suggestions and is making improvements focused on comfort and safety for couples and single women.
- The pricing structure for single men has been adjusted, resulting in a much more balanced and controlled crowd compared to earlier periods.
- The regular attendees represent a good variety of normal, ordinary people rather than a narrow demographic.
- The club offers a range of themed events throughout the month to keep things fresh and attract different crowds.
- Management demonstrates a genuine commitment to maintaining a non-pressure, safe environment for all members.
What guests complain about
- The established social groups can feel cliquish and unwelcoming to newcomers who don't actively reach out first.
- Attendance can be quite small on non-event nights, particularly Thursday and Friday, which may disappoint those seeking a lively crowd.
- Some reviewers felt that management and staff came across as overly involved with patrons in a way that felt uncomfortable.
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Club facts, checked against sources
0 of 8 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Membership
- Paid membership Club says Club website · November 2026
- Single men
- Every night Club says Club website · November 2026
- Open on
- Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday Other sources say Google Maps · November 2026
- Dress code
- Smart Club says Club website · November 2026
- Food
- Snacks Club says Club website · November 2026
- Drinks
- Bring your own Club says Club website · November 2026
- Wheelchair access
- Yes Other sources say Google Maps · November 2026
- Minimum age
- 21 Club says Club website · November 2026
Latest reviews from every source
Pretty decent LS club and clearly the ownership is making improvements. The owners are responsive to member suggestions and are starting to make changes that emphasize comfort and safety for couples and single women. We have never gone on a Thursday or Friday, and have noticed that when there isn't a themed event, the crowd can be a bit small. Hopefully they will add more themed events to attract larger crowds. In te…
We have not been yet so we cannot judge yet I wonder if it's worth it if it's just a sausage fest
It's ran by a bunch of guys that come off pretty creepy. The staff shouldn't be looking to be so involved with patrons.
Sources we checked
- Google Maps 3.8★ from 44 reviews readnewest October 2026
What Google reviewers talk about
sausage · 2
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (4 with stars). The line is the running average. Does the owner answer?
The ownership demonstrates responsiveness by actively seeking and implementing member feedback to improve the venue's comfort and safety standards.
Rating spread
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Google Maps, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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