DESIROUS PARTY
Party organiser, South HoustonOpen
DESIROUS PARTY is open, as far as Google, its own website and the web archive can tell.
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Updated 13 November 2026
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Details
- Status
- Open
- Website
- desirousparty.com
- Newest review
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Before you go
- Arriving
Arrive early for the best seating and to secure your spot, as events can draw large crowds.
- First visit
Connect with other members via the platform's chat features before the event to help break into social circles; go in with an open mind and don't be shy.
- Dress code
Ladies may wear anything drop-dead sexy, from intimate outfits to little black dresses; gentlemen should dress to impress with collared shirts, nice jeans, or dress pants—no shorts, t-shirts, or ball caps.
- Facilities
The club's own website notes that colette Houston offers over 7,000 sq ft of club space, a top-shelf liquor bar, and a private membership atmosphere.
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About DESIROUS PARTY
Desirous Party is a membership-based lifestyle organization that hosts parties, hotel takeovers, and vacation events across the US and internationally, catering to couples and single women. The club's own website describes itself as an elite community focused on upscale, authentic members who value discretion and quality. A typical Desirous Party event is high-energy, often featuring multiple DJs, themed nights, hotel takeovers, and pool parties, with an emphasis on socializing, meeting new people, and exploring fantasies in a structured environment.
Attendees describe nights as lively and fun, though with an intense club atmosphere—expect loud music, late-night activities (often starting around 3am), and a youthful vibe. The afterparties are noted as particularly memorable and worth staying up for. Many guests appreciate the opportunity to connect with other couples and single women in a dedicated lifestyle space.
Desirous Party works best for younger couples comfortable with a club scene and networking before events—many attendees suggest connecting via chat ahead of time helps break into the crowd. Reviews suggest it's newbie-friendly overall, though some find the atmosphere cliquish or prefer a more relaxed pool-party environment. Most reviewers who enjoyed it emphasize having an open mind and not being shy.
- Who goes
- Primarily younger couples in their late 20s through early 40s, with a focus on attractive, fit attendees; couples and single women only.
- How opinion has moved
- Consistent positive sentiment across 2020–2023 reviews, with recurring themes about fun, high energy, and good for newcomers, though some mid-2022 feedback noted the younger demographic and cliquish feel may not suit all ages.
What guests love
- The events offer a high-energy atmosphere with strong DJs and well-organized production that keeps the party lively throughout the night.
- Afterparties are considered well worth attending and often go until dawn, creating memorable experiences.
- The community is described as welcoming and friendly to newcomers who are open-minded and willing to engage.
- Desirous Party attracts attractive, fit, and like-minded couples and single women, creating an upscale social environment.
- Hotel takeovers and themed events provide immersive multi-night experiences with curated production and entertainment.
What guests complain about
- The social scene can feel cliquish, with many attendees having formed connections before arriving, making it harder for solo visitors to break in.
- The club atmosphere is very loud with intense music and club vibes, which some find overwhelming or unsuitable for conversation.
- The younger demographic and high-energy club scene may not appeal to those seeking a more relaxed, mature pool-party atmosphere.
- One-night hotel takeovers can feel overwhelming without prior connections or familiarity with the lifestyle.
- Activity and play often doesn't begin until 3am or later, which may not suit those looking for earlier evening engagement.
- Some reviewers questioned whether the stated couples-and-single-women-only policy is strictly enforced, noting a male-heavy presence in promotional photos.
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Club facts, checked against sources
0 of 6 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Membership
- Free sign-up Club says Club website · November 2026
- Single men
- Not allowed Club says Club website · November 2026
- Dress code
- Sexy, lingerie Club says Club website · November 2026
- Drinks
- Bring your own Club says Club website · November 2026
- Smoking
- Smoking area Club says Club website · November 2026
- Typical age
- 20s to 30s Sources differ Reddit · December 2023 other sources say: Mixed
Latest reviews from every source
Visiting Houston for NYE, recommendations?: We’re a late 20s / early 30s couple. We’re visiting Houston for NYE and would love to go to a lifestyle event. I’ve seen Colette, TPC South, and Desirous Party are all having NYE parties. Would love some recommendations on which to choose if anyone has more insight into the Houston scene. Thank you!
Halloween erotic party_HOUSTON: Has anyone ever been to the Halloween erotic party hosted by desirous party in houston? If so, how was it?was it worth the money?
Desirous parties are fun and you’ll have a good time at the Halloween party. Only caution is they are a lot of cliques that are hard to break into.
We’re out of town that weekend so we really haven’t checked. I would do the Desirous Party. It’s good sexy fun. Also stay in the hotel if you can. Lots of after parties.
Wife and I will be there. This will be our first experience there or any event. It does look like there are about 700 people already booked so I would imagine a large crowd throughout the whole weekend. Not sure what to expect, or if it worth them money, but we will find out. Lol.
Desirous parties are a lot of fun. We’ve been going to them for years. It can look overwhelming at first but the best advice I can give is to have fun with it and don’t be shy. The party is high energy and the afterparty is definitely worth staying up for. Lol we never usually get much sleep. We are definitely looking forward to the Halloween party!
Well worth it, we will be attending this weekends event. Also very new people friendly
We are going tonight. Went a couple of years ago and it was a lot of fun. When not going to Desirous events, we usually go to TPC N or S. PM us if anyone is interested in meeting at the party. No expectations, just like to socialize and meet folks!
Sources we checked
- Reddit 14 reviews readnewest December 2023
- SwingersClubList
Review history
Does the owner answer?
The Desirous Party organization actively hosts and promotes events through their website and social media, and the club's own website encourages members to RSVP and engage with the community, though individual owner responses to reviews are not documented in the sources.
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Reddit, SwingersClubList, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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