The illuminaughty
Party organiser, KansasOpen
The illuminaughty is open. Rated 5★ from 4 Google reviews; the newest review is from unknown.
- 5★Average rating
- 4reviews
- unknownNewest review
Updated 13 November 2026
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Details
- Monclosed
- Tue09:00–22:00
- Wed09:00–22:00
- Thu09:00–22:00
- Fri09:00–22:00
- Sat09:00–22:00
- Sunclosed
- Status
- Open
- Phone
- +1619-376-6360
- Website
- weareilluminaughty.com
- Newest review
- unknown
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Before you go
- Arriving
The club's own website notes that the event address is provided to members closer to the date, and photos with consent are allowed during the arrival window before the opening talk begins.
- Privacy
The club's own website states that members must respect each other's privacy and not discuss details or identify other attendees outside the event, though you can share your own experience.
- First visit
Experienced members are consistently welcoming to newcomers with no intimidating energy, and you're encouraged to observe and go at your own pace.
- Dress code
The club's own website indicates there is a dress code but directs members to contact support or check the FAQ for specific details on what to wear.
- At the door
The club's own website explains that membership is free but requires application, with careful selection of candidates; not everyone will be approved.
- Facilities
The club's own website mentions play areas with protection provided, lockers or coat check, and security at events, though specific facility details vary by venue.
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About The illuminaughty
Illuminaughty is a members-only lifestyle club for swingers, ethically non-monogamous couples, and sex-positive singles in their 20s, 40s, based across North America with monthly events in dozens of cities plus destination cruises and resort takeovers. The club's own website emphasises that all attendees are vetted members—not paid models or performers—creating a community focused on genuine connection, communication, and consent. Nights typically feature upscale venues with play areas, cocktail mixers, and socialising in a carefully curated atmosphere designed to feel welcoming rather than intimidating.
Reviewers consistently praise the genuinely kind and welcoming energy, with experienced members helping newcomers feel at ease and the overall vibe described as sexy but inviting rather than pressurised. The beautifully upscale environments and the genuine quality of the community draw strong loyalty, with members attending events across multiple cities and regions as the organization expands.
This works best for curious first-timers who want a sex-positive space without seediness, established lifestyle couples looking to connect with a carefully selected peer group, and anyone who values communication and consent as core values. With a perfect 5-star rating across recent reviews and consistent praise for inclusivity and atmosphere, Illuminaughty appears to have earned its reputation as distinctly different from typical swinger venues.
- Who goes
- Members in their 20s, 30s, and 40s including couples and single women, spread across major US cities from coast to coast with a growing national community.
- How opinion has moved
- All four recent reviews from September 2024 are five stars with consistently enthusiastic language about community growth and improving quality across multiple locations.
What guests love
- The community feels genuinely kind, welcoming, and sex-positive without being intimidating, with experienced members actively helping newcomers feel comfortable.
- The upscale environments are beautifully designed and maintained, creating a sophisticated atmosphere that sets Illuminaughty apart from typical swinger venues.
- All attendees are real members vetted by the organisation rather than paid models or performers, ensuring authentic connections and conversations.
- The organisation maintains strong values around consent, communication, and self-awareness that shape every interaction and the overall tone of events.
- Events are expanding across multiple cities and regions, allowing members to travel and attend in San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Phoenix, Austin, and beyond with consistently improving quality.
- The balance between structured events like cocktail mixers and free socialising means there is no pressure to perform or participate in any particular way.
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Club facts, checked against sources
0 of 5 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Membership
- Free sign-up Club says Club website · November 2026
- Open on
- Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday Other sources say Google Maps · November 2026
- Typical age
- 20s to 30s Club says Club website · November 2026
- Condoms
- Free Club says Club website · November 2026
- Closed for good
- No Club says Club website · November 2026
Latest reviews from every source
I look forward to these events every month! The community is amazing. Experienced members are always welcoming to first timers, so there’s no intimidating energy. The combination of the beautifully upscale environment and genuinely kind attendees makes this organization unmatched!
I love this group, I went to their event in San Diego last year, and I had such a good time. Then I started going to their other events in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Phoenix, and Austin! Every event I've attended just kept getting better and better. My favorite part about the whole thing is how welcoming it is. I was pretty apprehensive at first, but I decided to check it out without any expectations and I ended up…
An incredible experience every time! 🫦 The community and party vibes are sexy and inviting… 10 out of 10 Would recommend!
Sources we checked
- Google Maps 5★ from 44 reviews readnewest June 2026
What Google reviewers talk about
welcoming atmosphere · 3community · 3
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (4 with stars). The line is the running average. Rating spread
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: Google Maps, the club's own website, every review we hold.
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