Virginia Friends

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1. Details

   Status

   Gone quiet

   Newest review

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   Before you go

   • Arriving

     The club's own website says couples should arrive and depart together.

   • Privacy

     The club's own website states it does not release guest information to other members and keeps a strict no-photography policy with zero tolerance for recording devices.

   • First visit

     The club's own website says it offers a new-couples seminar at parties to help first-timers feel at ease, even if you have lifestyle experience elsewhere.

   • Prices

     The club's own website lists membership options: one month at $12 plus fees, three months at $25 plus fees, six months at $45 plus fees, or one year at $60 plus fees; event admission requires membership but is separate.

2. About Virginia Friends

   Virginia Friends is a couples-and-single-women-only lifestyle club based in Virginia that has operated since 1993. The club's own website emphasises that it focuses on screened hotel parties rather than being an online dating site, with membership required to access events. According to long-standing members, the club offers a genuinely welcoming atmosphere with attractive, in-shape couples and a friendly vibe that sets it apart from competitors in the Virginia and DC region.

   Nights at Virginia Friends typically centre on hotel parties with dancing, drinking, and socialising in cordoned-off members-only spaces. The club runs monthly events and also organises travel experiences like lifestyle cruises. First-time visitors receive a new-couples seminar designed to put people at ease, and the club maintains strict rules around consent, respect, and discretion to create a safe environment.

   The club suits couples new to the lifestyle as well as experienced players looking for a reliable, well-vetted community. Reviews spanning from 2004 onwards consistently praise the quality of the crowd and the friendly, organised approach. The club's website shows it remains active with upcoming travel events and membership options available.

   Who goes

   Couples and single women only; attractive, in-shape, local Virginia and DC-area members with a mix of experienced and first-time participants.

   How opinion has moved

   Reviews from 2004–2006 were highly enthusiastic; later Reddit references from 2021 confirm the club was still hosting events including New Year's Eve parties.

   What guests love

   • The atmosphere is genuinely friendly and welcoming compared to other clubs in the Virginia and DC area.
   • The crowd consists of good-looking, in-shape, and attractive couples who are serious about the lifestyle.
   • New-couples seminars put first-timers at ease and help them feel confident attending.
   • The club maintains high standards by requiring in-person event attendance and screening profiles to prevent fake accounts.
   • After-hours social areas cordoned off for members only provide a relaxed space for socialising after dancing and drinking.
   • The club has a long track record of reliable, well-organised monthly parties since 1993.

3. Club facts, checked against sources

   0 of 3 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.

   Membership

   Paid membership Club says Club website · November 2026

   Single men

   Not allowed Club says Club website · November 2026

   Closed for good

   No Club says Club website · November 2026

   Latest reviews from every source

   • Reddit · November 2021

     Virginia Friends next hotel party is NYE.

   • Reddit · September 2021

     I found both under events on SLS. Virginia Friends has their own website by the same name. The other one I can’t remember the name. If you are using the ap you can search events by distance, if you are using the website you have to go to the hot date calendar.

   • SwingersClubList · December 2006

     Virginia Friends ROCKS!: We've been members for years, almost the entire time we've been in the Lifestyle. Virginia Friends (VAF) is far and away the best that VA and DC have to offer. You can read all about our HOTTT times at VAF on our blog (and see the pictures, too). xoxo, Danni and B danni654.blogspot.com

   • SwingersClubList · April 2004

     Virgina Friends: We have tried all the other club in VA but have not found our place. We went to Virginia Friends and were blown away with the club. A far cry from the rest. Good looking, inshape and attractive couples. The atmosphere was soooo friendly and the new couples seminar put us at total ease. A must for first timers even though we are experienced.

   • SwingersClubList · February 2004

     First Class club!: I've only attended a few of the many monthly parties that Virginia Friends has.... but in comparison to what the other clubs offer.... they are far ahead in first place! :-) My significant other really likes the after hours social ..... after the dancing and drinking.... they meet in a cordoned off part of the hotel where only "members" are allowed....

   Sources we checked

   • Reddit 2 reviews readnewest November 2021
   • SwingersClubList 3 reviews readnewest December 2006

   Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.

   Sources for this text: Reddit, SwingersClubList, the club's own website, every review we hold.

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