The House
Swingers club, RaleighNot verified
The House is open, as far as Google, its own website and the web archive can tell.
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Updated 13 November 2026
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Before you go
- Arriving
You must make a reservation in advance; the venue is selective about admissions but reviewers report that persistence usually pays off within a few tries, especially for first-timers.
- Privacy
Discretion is a priority: everything is kept private until you're admitted, which reviewers say makes them feel very comfortable.
- First visit
The House is specifically designed for newcomers—the staff provides excellent instruction upon arrival, and the atmosphere is explicitly relaxed and judgment-free, so you can participate as much or as little as you choose.
- Prices
The House is described as probably the most inexpensive lifestyle club, and it's BYOB to keep costs down further.
- Facilities
Multiple private play rooms inside and out, a hot tub, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and in summer, an impressive pool area; grilled food is available at night.
- Food and drink
The club's own website and reviews mention that good food is served, particularly grilled food in the evenings, and guests can order meals to refuel between activities.
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About The House
The House is a well-established swinger club in Raleigh with a reputation for being welcoming to newcomers and experienced guests alike. The venue features multiple themed play rooms, a hot tub, and a striking summer pool setup, plus a dance floor with a stripper pole. The club's own website emphasizes that it caters to first-timers with open, honest communication and a judgment-free environment.
A typical night involves meeting other couples in a relaxed, friendly atmosphere with good music and food available. The venue operates themed events throughout the year—from pool parties in summer to special nights like Female Fantasy and Daisy Duke parties—and guests can choose their level of participation from watching to full engagement in private spaces. Many reviewers note the mix of ages and experience levels creates a comfortable dynamic.
Reviews consistently praise the owner Blair and the staff for creating a safe, sexy, pressure-free space. Couples and single women report feeling genuinely welcome from their first visit, and many become repeat guests. The overall consensus is that The House delivers on its promise: a fun, well-run venue where people can explore at their own pace.
- Who goes
- Couples of all experience levels, single women, and occasional single men on Fridays; ages and mix of newcomers and long-time lifestylers.
- How opinion has moved
- Opinion has remained consistently enthusiastic across the entire review period from 2011 to 2026, with no decline in satisfaction.
What guests love
- The welcoming, pressure-free atmosphere and the staff's genuine friendliness make newcomers feel comfortable exploring at their own pace.
- The variety of themed play rooms and outdoor spaces, including a stunning summer pool setup, gives guests many options for socializing or privacy.
- Blair, the owner, and his team run a well-organized, clean venue and are consistently praised for their hospitality and attentiveness to guests' comfort.
- The mix of guests—couples at all experience levels, single women, younger and older attendees—creates a diverse, inclusive social dynamic.
- Special themed events throughout the year, from pool parties to scavenger hunts, keep the experience fresh and engaging for repeat visitors.
- The affordable pricing and BYOB policy make it more accessible than many other lifestyle venues.
What guests complain about
- Friday nights can attract a high proportion of single men, which some reviewers feel creates an imbalanced dynamic compared to Saturday nights.
- Getting an initial reservation can be difficult due to selective admissions, though reviewers note persistence usually succeeds.
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Club facts, checked against sources
0 of 6 facts confirmed by two or more independent sources. Each fact shows who says it. Confirmed = two or more independent sources agree. Prices are per night at the door and change, so check the date.
- Single men
- Not allowed Other sources say SwingersClubList · November 2026
- Open on
- Saturday Other sources say SwingersClubList · November 2026
- Busiest on
- Saturday Other sources say SwingersClubList · November 2022
- Facilities
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- Pool Other sources say SwingersClubList ×2 · January 2026
- Jacuzzi Other sources say SwingersClubList · January 2026
- Play rooms Other sources say SwingersClubList ×2 · January 2026
- Outdoor area Other sources say SwingersClubList ×2 · January 2024
- Food
- Buffet Other sources say SwingersClubList ×3 · November 2025
- Booking
- Required Other sources say SwingersClubList · July 2024
Latest reviews from every source
Wonderful place: Hubs and I had a wonderful time and enjoyed meeting others. the pool, hot tub, and themed cabanas are so much fun!
Really inviting and fun, even for beginners!: We had a blast, chatted with a few couples mostly but the dynamic was safe, fun, and welcoming - everyone (employees included) was friendly and sexy - will be back!!
We love the House!: Great times with awesome people. Blair runs a tight ship. We always feel welcome and we’re always ‘fed’.
A great place to learn and live a little: Everyone at the house is amazing. The place is open and inviting and for our first three visits - we had the best time. It Was not what we expected --- it was much better. For two newbies is was exactly what we needed. Open honest communication with other couples and a safe place to experiment and explore without judgement. If you don't give the house a try - you are missing…
five star: amazing place. Blair and his staff run a fun and safe place to let loose a little or a lot what ever you prefer
thanks Blair: thanks so for all you do
long time attendee: we have been going to the house for several years. It is a great place to meet people and play. the summer pool parties are awesome. Ive always felt safe coming here as a single female
We love this House!: Amazing team that always makes The House a sexy, safe, fun place to play! We love The House! Hope to be going back for many years to cum!
Sources we checked
- SwingersClubList 4★ from 2727 reviews readnewest January 2026
Review history
Each dot is one dated Google review (27 with stars). The line is the running average. Does the owner answer?
The owner Blair actively replies to reviews and is repeatedly named by guests as central to the venue's welcoming, professional atmosphere.
Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.
Sources for this text: SwingersClubList, every review we hold.
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