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Bones Backyard

Party organiser, San AntonioNot verified

Bones Backyard is open, as far as Google, its own website and the web archive can tell.

Updated 13 November 2026

  1. Details

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    Before you go

    • First visit

      Contact the hosts beforehand—they offer guidance on planning your experience and can arrange travel logistics like hotels and flights.

    • Food and drink

      Pool parties include snacks and refreshments as part of the event.

  2. About Bones Backyard

    Bones Backyard, known as the Boneyard, is a swinger lifestyle venue and event organizer based in San Antonio that hosts pool parties and curated experiences. The operation functions as both a party venue and travel planning service, arranging accommodations, flights, and rental cars alongside their events. Guests describe nights filled with a carefully mixed crowd of like-minded people, quality refreshments, and an atmosphere that feels genuinely welcoming and well-managed.

    What makes this venue stand out is the hosts' deep personal investment in the lifestyle and their skill at reading the room—they adjust the energy and intensity to suit each event and group. Attendees consistently praise the quality of the guest list, the attention to detail in planning, and the authentic, boundary-aware approach that puts everyone at ease. People drive considerable distances to attend, suggesting the reputation extends well beyond the local area.

    The reviews paint a picture of a venue that appeals to couples and singles wanting a high-quality, thoughtfully organized experience rather than a chaotic party atmosphere. If you're looking for events where the hosts genuinely understand the lifestyle and care about creating the right environment, the consistent five-star feedback suggests Bones Backyard delivers.

    Who goes
    Couples and singles seeking a curated lifestyle experience, with guests traveling from across the region.

    What guests love

    • The hosts are genuinely knowledgeable about the lifestyle and manage events with careful attention to boundaries and guest comfort.
    • The guest list is consistently attractive and well-curated, creating a high-quality social and intimate atmosphere.
    • The venue offers pool party events with a relaxed, sexy ambiance that attendees find superior to other lifestyle venues.
    • The hosts provide full travel planning services including hotel bookings, flight arrangements, and rental cars to make visits convenient.
    • The atmosphere feels authentic, with hosts who are fully invested in the lifestyle and able to adjust the energy based on the group's preferences.
    • Attendees feel the experience is worth traveling considerable distances to attend, suggesting exceptional quality and value.
  3. Review history

    Latest reviews from every source

    • 5★ SwingersClubList · September 2024

      Best Parties EVER: Y'all are the absolute best hosts. We have been to 2 pool parties even though it's a 1.5 hour drive for us. Knowing how good they are we would drive cross country to go. Great mix of sexy people, snacks, and an atmosphere that has now spoiled us. Not sure we could go to anyone else's party and not be disappointed after the bar being set so high. You guys are the greatest. Mel and Dave
    • 5★ SwingersClubList · August 2024

      Best Group ever: Best group ever! Sexy ppl Always fun events!
    • 5★ SwingersClubList · January 2024

      BONESBACKYARD / Boneyard: Boneyard is absolutely the real deal. If you need help planning an event, need travel arranged (hotel, airfare, rental car) or, are looking for a wonderfully planned vacation, Boneyard is who you should contact. On top of being the ultimate party planners / travel agents, they are fantastic people! Contact them for all your sexy fun adventures!
    • 5★ SwingersClubList · December 2023

      Experts because the live it and love it: Anyone who knows boneyard knows they are full speed full throttle. They can dial it up and dial it back based on you. True subject matter experts and people you like to be around. Could recommend them enough!
    • 5★ SwingersClubList · December 2023

      Real bones: They are the REAL deal. Genuine and aware of the rules and boundaries for the LS.

    Sources we checked

    Review history

    1★2★3★4★5★December 2023September 2024
    Each dot is one dated Google review (5 with stars). The line is the running average.

    Does the owner answer?

    The hosts actively engage with the community, demonstrating genuine care for the lifestyle and maintaining strong relationships with regular guests.

    Written from the venue's newest Google reviews and its own website. We paraphrase, we never quote guests, and we never name anyone.

    Sources for this text: SwingersClubList, every review we hold.

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